Why is it when you and ur man break up and then makeup it always require having sex?

im a 24yr old female and im dating a 38 yr old married man..we have been togther for 4 yrs now. we have our ups and downs with the relationship..yesterday we got into the biggest fight ever..we said some things to each other that hurt us..i ment wat i had said but he said all the things he said about me were only cuz he was mad not because he ment it..and then we made up and did it..why is it that everytime we fight thats how he thinks we patch things up..i just hate having that kind of s.. does this happen in all relationships or just mine?Why is it when you and ur man break up and then makeup it always require having sex?
You are kidding right.


That is a very natural way of non verbal reconnection. It is both partners opening to each other. You talked, made up, and are now going to another level.


You really do not understand he is trying to make up and reconnect with you. He feels that with intimate physical contact you both will grow closer.


I think you are with the wrong person. You do not find the act of intamite physical contact a non verbal way of reconnecting to your partner. He does and is trying to get closer to you.


If you do not want physical contact with your partner after a fight and make up, you better tell them when you first start dating.Why is it when you and ur man break up and then makeup it always require having sex?
Men only make up with the lady to get laid.Its not like they really care for you or are really sorry. You're 24 and still have to ask this question?
To avoid boring discussions
There IS some truth in what vtgirl said. Sex, along with many other wonderful things, is a release of tension. That's possibly why he gravitates to sex after you fight.





So, jeeven, tell me again why are you staying in this relationship?
because it makes us happy
Not just yours. Sometimes makeup sex is so good, but the problems are still there. The makeup sex is only a temporary fix. You need to tell him that the things you said are how you really feel and that you want a solution to the problem. If not things are gonna get crazy between you two.
because men are pigs and they all ways want sex
Because you two have been apart for awhile and alot of negative emotions transpired from the breakup. Whe you make up you tend to say things that you probably couldn't say before. He hasn't touched you in a minute and the same with you. If its a deep emotional relationship make up sex could be mind blowing.